Basic Theory

Green Light: Oh gosh, found someone that able to draw your attention or someone that you would like to give a try on relationship? At the very beginning, there's no harm to give a try... So just go ahead!

Yellow Light: For sure the early stage can be super sweet, lovely and romantic. After quite some time,  sweetness or loveliness, you might be able to feel they are no longer that concentrate any more. Example; Less message, less call, shorter text, or even chance to meet is lesser by explaining to you there're busy! If after quite some time they still remain as before, then, congratulations! =)

Red Light: There's few possibility at this stage such as, they will be telling you to remain dating but not into relationship yet because not ready for commitment or even at the moment they don't wish to have commitment OR by telling they feel quite comfortable happy now and hope to remain it like this! Well, if this happened, don't be silly, go for new one! 

The end

Why have to make things complicated? Recently a close friend of mine broke up with his lover. He's really sad and moody for quite sometime until now, he's not fully recovered yet. Poor him. While chatting with him, he asked me lots of questions. I asked him to wake and move on no matter what kind of reasons his ex lover gave him for break up.

When comes to break up, first thing in mind "reason"? Well, I personally don't think that we should be bother by what's the reason behind of breaking up. Seriously, people who willing to suggest it, meaning they not in love any more. For those who able to give plenty of reasons, that will be just excuses instead of reasons.

It is the same, we can't really ask our lover to describe or express how much they love us because we should know that love is undefinable. So, when lover decided to break up, they can't really explain why the love is gone too.

Let go and move on will be the best medicine. Live for yourself.

I'm just me

I'm just me. Full of flaws, scars and insecurities. The one who truly love me will see beyond them, embrace me in spite of them and love me through them.

Reality

Have you ever think of trying to be someone else rather than to be yourself? Usually this happened on us as human who lack of self esteem. Seeing others being treated so well by people who they love in their life makes us really envy and started to think of whether anything wrong on ourself and why can't we have that too? 

After all, we decided to have some little changes try not to be who we are. Slowly we started to be little poker face and imitate those who are so success in love in order to get someone's attention to gain some chemical from the person we love. Well, at the end even though this works but do ask ourself how long it will last? Why not be yourself and be who you are.

If you are weird, just be weird. Love to be random? Let it be! Be who you are... and this will lead you to the person that truly love the side that you hiding all the while.

Feeling upset?

Sometimes love matter really making us upset... but please try to be happy as life is really short and fragile.

Should have learn by living cheerfully and happily will naturally solve your problems without realising it! There's always something more important and practical waiting for you to accomplish. Do it while waiting and give yourself a chance to be surprised soon.

Relationship status: It's Complicated?

I think everyone of us are really sick with "third party" or "triangle love" matter. Have anyone of you actually feel that this will be part of the issue among all of us once we're in a relationship or attached with someone after sometime? Why?

Sometimes once everything seems going well and you're being too pampered by your lover, we will start to expect more and more efforts from our partner without realize it at all. For example, you might expect your lover to put on more time with you. Once they can't make it or telling you that they have something to busy with and so on less messages or calls from them, and we'll be thinking of whether are they flirting etc. Mostly caused by curiosity and insecurity.

Once this happened, your partner will start to feel tired and potentially this relationship will turn into a burden to them. Things will start to be more and more complicated until the possibility someone who will makes them feel more comfortable with might turns up to be the third party in the relationship.

"Understanding & Tolerate" will be the key in everything.